作者 guru
他很少在家，也很少回家。
他從小就很獨立，很孤獨…家人都不太暸解他，也不太會去注意他…
他會自己換衣上學，自己去撿破爛換零用錢。
家庭不至於窮到挨餓，但也常受到稍微有錢的白眼…
所以他十五歲故意輟學，決心要賺大錢！
他孤單的走出大門，決心找尋自己的一片天空！
但談何容易？他只有拼命努力…所以他很少回家！
他愛過，也受傷過…他不太願意伸訴，他的好強好勝，讓他看起來是永遠的贏家！
後來他走向修行的旅程…修有所成之後，他到處弘法教學，更少回家了…
但過年過節，他總會準時回家！
每次回家，他和兩老會有一種默契！
他會先通個電話預報歸期，兩老會有意無意的、輪流徘徊在門庭外等候…
終於…到家、笑迎、放行李、把兩份孝心各交兩老、洗澡、換上輕鬆的衣服…
此時、老媽已經把晚餐煮好，一定有他愛吃的咖喱雞、辣椒蝦！
除非是大年除夕、否則、家中兄弟姐妹很少聚集共餐。
通常都是兩老陪伴他，他會一邊大口吃飯，一邊向兩老匯報生活點滴…
他老爸會很用心傾聽，很少插話，只是偶爾勉勵兩句，臉上透露了為兒子驕傲的眼神…
他老媽會默默的在一旁為他夾菜，看著他大快朵頤，心理就滿足到不說話了…
他們會有說不完的話，談不完的事…一餐飯總是會吃上兩個小時！
然後、一定是老爸先開口：到大廳去坐吧！那邊較涼快！
老爸會讓出他心愛的老人椅，還會找出那幾乎發霉的搖控器，把那平時不捨得用的空調，開到最大最涼快的溫度…
老媽會在此時、熟練的捧出久藏的茶具，泡上一壼他愛喝的陳年潽洱…（ 有時還會拿出兩包花生 ）
電視的畫面會延續，音量會被刻意調低… 聊天會繼續…話題會繼續…
兄弟姐妹會一個個陸續回來，有些會留下來聊兩句，有些會打個招呼，急急的洗個澡、扒兩口飯、又往外跑了…
他和兩老會坐到深夜、老爸老媽總會刻意掩飾眼上的睡意…他們恨不得繼續這難得的一刻，他們會恨不得延續整個晚上、從黑夜到天明！
年復一年、每逢過年過節，都是他兩老所期待的日子…
年復一年、每逢過年過節，兩老會有意無意的徘徊在庭院門前…
年復一年、這種默契一直無言的延續著…
年復一年…這些幸福的日子…好像還發生在昨天！
怎麼忽然間兩老都不在世上了？
他忽然驚覺到他要找尋的天空！
原來愛一直在發生著…多麼幸福的日子！
原來他曾經擁有過！
天啊…祂一直都在著！
你還有更多的話要說嗎？
後序…寫這篇稿時，從花蓮趕台北、從台北趕台中，累到不成人形，寫完的稿來不及發表，電腦當機把文字都當掉了，傻眼了…天…決定再累還是要重寫！因為、那些日子、是最幸福的日子啊！
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